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Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned.

Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned. Are comments or jokes about body weight common in Vietnam? Just want to know what to expect and how to react.Thanks.Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned. Are comments or jokes about body weight common in Vietnam? Just want to know what to expect and how to react.Thanks.

570 thoughts on “Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned.

  1. AustraliaAustralia
    Chuck McKeag
    says:

    You will receive some jokes, but they will beg for your respect and money. There’s a huge double standard there

  2. CanadaCanada
    Phil Watson
    says:

    You’ll probably get more comments from the poor people who end up sitting next to you on a long haul flight…..

  3. AustraliaAustralia
    Paddy Riley
    says:

    You might get a couple or people wanting to take photos with you but mostly they won’t say anything to you. Had one old mole on the plane calling me fat in Vietnamese. I knew the word. But that was one out of millions over 3 weeks. You’ll be fine. Harden up.

  4. AustraliaAustralia
    Filip Castle
    says:

    Vietnamese are very blunt and direct, they will mention weight.. and depending on the context they might say no because you are overweight, because the extra weight will not work for that situation

  5. AustraliaAustralia
    Tien Schwalbach
    says:

    Body shaming is a real thing in Vietnam, because we were so poor & skinny, but then people got wealthy & our diet got so westernised so more overweight people now, like the rest of Asia. You’ll be fine.

  6. VietnamVietnam
    Dejané Nakios
    says:

    Yes they are, a man went and grabbed my husband’s lack of pecs 😂 They are friendly though

  7. CanadaCanada
    Kyle Nelson
    says:

    Yes they tell me I’m fat every single day get over it 😂🤣

  8. CanadaCanada
    Shelley Hill
    says:

    I have heard, right from my Vietnamese daughter-in-law, that the Vietnamese will be rude and make comments about overweight people which breaks my heart because one of my sons who is going our our 2 week trip is obese. Personally, I have found they don’t have the same social norms as westerners because their from a whole different continent. We don’t talk over one another, they do and it gets quite loud. Prepare now for rude comments.

  9. United StatesUnited States
    Doug Compher
    says:

    You wont understand a word they say unless they make piggy sounds. That is a universal sound. I hope this helps.

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