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Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned.

Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned. Are comments or jokes about body weight common in Vietnam? Just want to know what to expect and how to react.Thanks.Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned. Are comments or jokes about body weight common in Vietnam? Just want to know what to expect and how to react.Thanks.

570 thoughts on “Honest question: my wife and I are overweight and not thick-skinned.

  1. VietnamVietnam
    Rameez Petersen
    says:

    I was in Hoi An. I’m a bigger girl and didn’t experience this at all. I wanted to wear their cultural attire but nothing in the shop fit. It was just a polite cool, no worries and on I went with my day. Also did a photoshoot in Hoi An and it was lovely. No-one made me feel weird about my body at all! And if they gossiped in Vietnamese, that’s their business 🤭🤭

  2. VietnamVietnam
    Patsy Jansen
    says:

    My husband tried to buy a shirt at the Con Market in DaNang. 😂 He’s 275 pounds. This is a 5X.

  3. VietnamVietnam
    Steven Stewart
    says:

    My Vietnamese friends have no filter. They are blunt but do not mean things rudely. They are dear friends & very kind. They even warned me not to take things wrong on my upcoming trip to Vietnam. They are blunt but mean no harm

  4. VietnamVietnam
    Patricia Cerena
    says:

    Common in asia the body shaming here is normal and insane

  5. VietnamVietnam
    Mitchel Ross
    says:

    My wife is Vietnamese and works in a nail salon. They talk to each other about clients all day – in Vietnamese. What’s even more amusing is they keep their head down as they speak- so you’d have no idea they might be talking about you. In general they are very polite people and wouldn’t tease you in any way.

  6. AustraliaAustralia
    Sue Janice
    says:

    If you have a belly they may rub it and call you lucky 😂 they did this to my husband, it’s a sign of good luck as this is what they do with the Buddha statues 🤭 my husband took it in good fun knowing they wasn’t being rude or disrespectful ☺️

  7. CanadaCanada
    Joe Blecharczyk
    says:

    I’m a big guy. While there a tour guide referred to me as happy Buda, it was a compliment. A Vietnamese lady told me that fat people are viewed as lucky, happy and wealthy.

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